Wednesday, August 22, 2012
Guest Post at Sweet Anne Designs
Sunday, June 24, 2012
Living with Food Allergies: Overcoming Challenges
- People telling you (directly or indirectly) that they think you're limited or "damaged goods" due to your strange immune system.
- Strangers commenting on your weight or body in a negative light.
- Misunderstandings about what you can and can't eat, and others seeing you as difficult due to your limited diet.
- Feeling alone or isolated from people, close and not so close, that don't fully understand your situation or refuse to acknowledge it.
- Struggling with safe food choices and keeping a balanced diet despite numerous restrictions.
- Self loathing or feeling inadequate due to being different with food allergies.
- Frustration on not being able to eat what everyone else does.
- Depression/Anxiety over your permanent situation.
- Feeling the need to apologize to others for your special diet or food allergies.
At first, I had a hard time grappling with the changes that had been shoved into my life without my consent. I felt myself asking questions like, "Why me?" or "How am I going to overcome this without losing myself?". The truth is, all of the above have come to be great and priceless blessings, even if it felt like the absolute opposite at the start.
Using these obstacles as stepping stones to building yourself back up after the fall takes patience and practice, but will ultimately make you stronger and more resilient than anyone or anything aiming these negative energies your way. Some of my best days have been laughing in the face of what seemed to be impossible to live with. I am constantly surrounded by food I cannot eat everywhere I go, but that doesn't mean my attitude needs to be sour. Let your light shine brighter and learn to love what you do have. Here's some of the many things I'm thankful for and that have taught me to embrace my radiant self, no matter what's testing me that day:
- Precious and delicious food that I can eat
- Learning to be my own gourmet chef and rock it out in the kitchen whenever I have a craving (waaay cheaper, healthier, and more fun than a few rounds at a run of the mill restaurant).
- My support system: Family is forever and the ones you can trust to just "be there" truly shine with you through the challenges making you realize your full potential and grace.
- The power of nature, nourishing the body, mind, and spirit, and keeping life simple.
- A positive outlook changes your life, and no one can take away your own powerful thoughts.
- Organic, pure, and real food.
- Small steps and victories that reaffirm you are capable of anything you focus on overcoming.
- How small and big my life seems at the same time when I look at the sky.
- Others negativity ultimately becomes my strength.
- Love. Pure and Simple.
That list could go on probably forever, but you get the idea. Overcoming challenges from living with special diets or food allergies can be difficult, there's no question about that. It's what you do with the opportunity that's knocking. Let your little light shine and be authentically you. You don't ever have to apologize for that. You are strong, beautiful, and you are the one that's in control. What will you do with your blessings today?
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Unleashing Inner Strength
Taken on a relaxing morning filled with the warm scent of cinnamon.
There's always time for being young and silly at heart. I find it vital to my existence.
Spontaneous brunches. My favorite coaster is shown here.
Sunday, January 1, 2012
Two Thousand Twelve
I'm not one to dwell on the past at the start of this year, so I'll start right off charging full speed ahead. We kicked the year off right and I'm so excited to see what it holds in store for us all. Good things are ahead, I can feel it.
This is the first year I've actually written down physically on a piece of paper my aspirations for the new year. I've hung the page in the apartment where I can see it each day of the year as a reminder to stay on track. Here's a few of my favorite points from the page I wrote:
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Wishing you a bright, magical 2012.
Remember this year, that you are much stronger than you know.
My new favorite toast of 2012 that I shared with Yan on New Year's Eve:
A toast to many things".
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Sprinkles
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Walk in my shoes: Sans Soy and Gluten
It's August, 2008. Little did I know, I'd began a steep downhill slide at the hands of gluten and soy. Dizzy spells, anxiety, unexplained weight loss, stomach pain, indigestion, brain fog, ADD, and nervous system disorders plagued everyday life until the breaking point. With a diagnosis of celiac/gluten intolerance in early 2009, I began to feel relief and definitely more vibrant. Though I had reached a much better level of health, I was still experiencing some troubling and scary symptoms. Random bouts of dizziness while driving, increased heart rate, inability to gain healthy weight, and some indigestion continued. Over the two years that followed, these symptoms increased to daily occurrences and were joined by some other frightening events....
In spring 2011 just after graduating from the University of Michigan Dearborn, my health took a nosedive. I developed a lump in the throat and throat swelling sensation with difficulty breathing, which sent me to the emergency room three times over a few weeks (not a cheap thing my friends!). I even received a CAT scan and had a camera stuck down my throat, which revealed I was having an allergic reaction to something; but doctors couldn't tell me to what. My chest had developed an unsightly swelling and sensitivity to the touch, which I now know was attributed to soy overload. I began to track my food intake, and realized that each trip to the emergency room corresponded with consumption of soy milk just before. It's true that I had implemented soy very heavily into my diet after going gluten free and I can now look back and link all symptoms to the soy consumption.
My new allergist recently told me it was very possible that I'd developed an adult onset soy allergy, as the only other thing I was allergic to after being poked and prodded for a few hours was perennial mold (not uncommon). She told me I would have a new best friend named Benadryl, and to avoid soy completely. I now know she really didn't do all that she could as far as testing goes. I was never tested for the IgA or IgG reaction (delayed allergic reactions) and only the IgE (severe, immediate). My believing is that I went so long having a delayed allergic reaction that my body developed a stronger, potentially life threatening IgE reaction to cope. I would love to advocate for regular IgA and IgG reactions to be given by all allergists in the U.S., not just by holistic health practitioners.
After attempting to cut out the soy, my body became more and more sensitive to trace amounts. Here's an example: I share a desk with a vegan at work. Since her diet consists more heavily of soy products, the keyboard we shared sent me into anaphylaxis and stomach convulsions after typing then eating my own allergen-free snacks using my hands.
It is much more difficult to find adequate and complete information on the internet regarding how to manage intense soy allergies than it is on how to live on the gluten free diet. Through my own research, uncomfortable trial and error, and lots of support from my loving boyfriend, I'm beginning to feel much safer. I really feel for others that have had to go through this with little help or direction, as it seems soy has contaminated our whole society! You have only to pick an aisle at the grocery store at random (minus the fresh produce section) and take a look at each product's ingredients; and not only in the food section. Shampoos, soaps, makeup, deodorant, toothpaste, and more contain soy derived ingredients. It can be totally scary and overwhelming, especially when soy or soy derived products are not labeled as containing soy. It's maddening at times!! But I know it's all worth the trouble, as my symptoms are waning rapidly. Can I get a hell yea?!
I've decided it's necessary to get as much information on soy allergies on the internet as possible, so I'm officially dedicating this page to Soy-free, Gluten-free living. Here, I plan to share information, advocate for proper labeling, and provide a type of forum for the Soy-free, Gluten-free community. It's time to roll with the punches. And um...punch some soy while we're at it ;-)
Stay positive, focus on what you can eat, know that your body will heal from this, and embrace the day!
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Lots of Love,
Bethany xoxo